During the process of a break up, you are bound to be in a sensitive state and delicate decision making should probably be avoided. Things won’t be very easy and it may be a little difficult to get your ex back if this is what you decide to do.
It’s okay to make mistakes because we all do. You need to make sure you are not making the wrong mistakes at this point.
Two major mistakes that are sometimes made after a break up: text message overload and drunk calling. They have the potential to be embarrassing and make matters worse. You will more than likely say things that shouldn’t be said.
1. Too many texts: too many text and calls in period of time, but if done in moderation, it’s not a problem.
When you add all the calls and texts you have done over a certain time frame, and it’s an extreme amount, then that is what we are talking about here. You may be calling or texting for good reasons, but the more you try to make contact, the worse you are making the situation between you two.
2. Dialing them when drunk: this will normally happen after you have been drinking and during a breakup, this leads to loneliness. You may say things you wouldn’t normally say with your sober mind.
It may not seem this way to you, but your ex will take this as weakness and desperation. To you it will seem like a good idea because you fill you are putting yourself out there and pouring your heart out.
So try to the best of your ability to refrain from doing either of these things. Hopefully you can catch yourself if you found yourself about to pick up the phone and change your mind. That will hopefully keep you from making a painful mistake you will regret later.
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