When it comes to relationships, quite often we find ourselves not being able to have clarity of thought and are unable to make out stand clear. If this happens between you and your girlfriend, then you need to sit down and ask yourself what is it that you want.
You should stay put in the relationship only if you are happy at heart and this should be the only consideration to keep it going.
If you believe that the relationship needs another try and a chance from both of you to make it work, fine invest the effort and time. If not, it is better to separate and go on with life on your own.
Any such breakup can cause a lot of distress to both of you. But this is purely temporary and it doesn’t hurt after a while when you begin to look out for another relationship.
If you are feeling too bad and not able to get better, just brush it off. You must be going through trying times and they don’t last.
Quite often, even when we know that the relationship with our girlfriend is not making us happy, we continue to go on without having to face it. It is better to separate and get over the breakup and seek a new relationship for your sake than to expect things to change between the two of you. May be both of you aren’t meant for each other.
Why do you need to keep your unhappiness to yourself? Why not sit down with your girlfriend and have a frank chat. May be it helps both of you make the required changes and get closer? She may not be aware of how you are feeling and hence not had the opportunity to work towards the relationship. May be you should give her a chance to try and improve things.
You do need to give ample opportunities until you are convinced that things are not working out and that it is back to where it started. Then of course there is no point in suffering further and let go.
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