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Some Topics You Should Be Very Careful About Bringing Up

Saturday, September 4th, 2010

While on your first date, be a little careful about what all topics you talk about. There are a few things to keep in mind on such occasions and some very important ones to make sure you refrain from discussing. There’s a very fine line to be aware of and breaking any of these rules can result in a date gone bad.

While on your outing, just enjoy the experience and use this opportunity to get to know the other person better. How you do this is by listening to the other person and talking only when required .

A conversation is not one sided. The other person would also be asking you questions about yourself. Do respond and talk about your self when asked and keep the conversation going. You should not be absent minded or somewhere lost in thought.

One doesn’t talk about topics like politics or crime on your first date. This is not done.

Of course you can talk about politics or any other subject if it so happens that both of you share the same common interest and then it helps you interact better and the conversation flows.

You will find that the conversation gets argumentative if both of you have diverse opinion while discussing politics. In such cases, the best would be to stop the conversation and change the subject.

Talking about Religion on your first date is also a No No.

If you have known each other’s view on religion and it matches without any conflict, it doesn’t make sense to bring up this topic during the conversation on your first date.

It does not help you to build your relationship if you end up fighting over religion on your first outing. Better would be to keep this subject for discussion on a future date when both of you have known each other for a while.

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A Piece Of Blarney Stone” 10 Ways To Add Force To Your Communication (2)

Tuesday, May 25th, 2010

5. Joking around

A little bit of comedy can do wonder to lift the anxiety, or worse dullness when putting your speech together. That way, you’ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they’ll feel that you’re just as amicable, and as human to those who pay attention.

6. Be like the rest of them

Communication is all about mixing with the public. You’ll get several ideas, as well as identifying what people make them as they are.

7. Me, I, and Myself

Acknowledge it, there are times you sing to yourself in the bathroom. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you’re at it you can improve as well.

8. With a grin

A smile says it all much like eye contact. There’s no point on grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering, unless it’s a wake. You can better express what you’re saying when you smile.

9. A Model

At least there must be one or two personalities in your life you have paid attention to when they’re at a public gathering or maybe at cathedral. Definitely they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they lay emphasis on what they say can assist you once you take center stage.

10. Groundwork

Some people like to note things down on index cards, whereas other resort to being a little more silly as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for sticky hands, right?). Just be at ease with what you know given that you enjoy your work. Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hasty fright.

And that about wraps it up. These suggestions are rather amateurish in edgewise, but I’ve learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings far more enjoyable as well as educational.

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